Sunday, November 7, 2010

8 year anniversary

Today (November 7th) is mine and Jr's 8 year anniversary. Not that 8 years isnt huge but I didnt see anything more special about this one than the past 7 anniversaries. Boy was I wrong! For several months Jr has been secretly planning something really special to give me. I have to give a little background of why I'm so excited. When Jr. and I were married 8 years ago RayRay was 3 months old. We had been dating for a little over a year and werent making the best choices obviously because we had a baby before we were married. So we took a little time to decide on getting married. When we did decide it moved very, very quickly. We could only afford to get wedding bands for eachother.

I'd be lying to myself if I didnt admit that getting a diamond engagement ring hasnt always been a wish of mine. I mean what girl doesnt dream of that. But I understood our circumstances and totally love my wedding band that has Maile engraved on the top of it. Throughout the last couple of years Jr and I have talked about getting me a diamond ring maybe a handful of times and it's usually a pretty quick conversation where I tell him I'm super simple and would want a small band because I would still want to wear my wedding band. These little talks of ours are usually forgotten immediately because I know that we have never been able to afford the type of ring I wanted.....meaning a real diamond lol. Not that I'm too good in anyway but I have never been one to wear a fake diamond on my hand and pass it off as real. Its just not me.

This past Wednesday Jr. text me at work and said he needed to see me ASAP and it's very important. I hate those types of text and I have no patience so I pressed him to tell me what was happening and let him know I was getting worried. He replied saying he had to tell me in person. I had a meeting so I couldnt meet him till afterwards and just let me tell you that meeting drrrraaaaaggggggggggg'd on and on. I was so anxious because I thought something was wrong.

Towards the end of it I received a text from Jr that was meant for our cousin Ray. It said "cuzzo, do you mind if I borrow one of your boxes to wrap Mona's present in". hahaha what a dork he sent it to me by accident. It made me feel better to know that nothing was wrong. The last 2 years Jr bought me Uggs as a gift, so I thought its either more boots, perfume or a watch. He's kind of predictible with gifts.

He picked me up and was so upset with himself for letting the cat out of the bag himself that he had a gift for me. He took me to lunch and I chose to go to Quizno's. Before we get there he gives me a bag with a box that holds another box, which holds a ring box, still the thought never crossed my mind about a ring, seriously the thought never crossed my mind. I thought it was earrings but it had this in it!!!!!!!!


Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh, my very own bling! It's a gorgeous ring. Jr picked it out all on his own. He said he went through so many and was getting a little discouraged when the jewler showed him a pair of diamond earrings. He loved them so much and it was the size, cut, and clarity he'd been looking for that the jewler said he could just mount it onto a band and sell it to him. He also got me the thin band so it would flow nicely with my wedding band.

When I opened it I just kept saying...are you serious? Jr had to yell "it's real babe" then I totally bawled like a baby. I text all my sisters and friends and showed everyone at work even all my male coworkers and I've been floating on cloud 9 ever since. What a sweet sweet man I'm married to.

I know we have eachother for eternity and that is all I need to get through this life so I started to feel guilty, because me wanting this ring after we are married already felt a little worldly. But something deep down inside of me knew that this is a gift to who I was 8 years ago. And it kind of filled a little void I didnt know I had. I told him that this ring for me represents me knowing that I belong to him, and knowing that he wants me to belong to him. I had so many emotions but those 2 feelings were clear as day for me. Oh how I love this man of mine. He's a keeper. Happy Anniversary to me!

Thursday, November 4, 2010

Ray and Leka love having another female around the house. Especially one that doesnt boss them around :). But who doesnt enjoy having sweet Ane Boo over? Our boys love and adore her and we were lucky to get her all to ourselves for a night.

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

I dont like to toot my own horn but....

Leka: (crying) Dad! RayRay just said I'm ugly!
Jr: You should know your not ugly Leka, because you look like me.
RayRay: I called Leka ugly because he said I'm dumb.
Jr: You should know your not dumb Ray because your smart like me.

Saturday, October 23, 2010

Land of the lost

Today Jr. lost his Ipod at RayRay's volleyball game. I felt so bummed because lately it feels like we lose everything around here. Our computer crashed and I think we lost everything on our hard drive...including 4 years of pictures :( I'm going to try and find a place that can at least salvage our pictures but I will be heart broken if they arent able to retrieve them. We're going to start saving for a new computer and I'll be smarter this time and buy a back up hard drive. Good thing black friday is coming up!

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Summer 2010



We had an awesome summer this year. Jr. stayed busy with special date nights with his nieces and our boys, RayRay was baptized, got in a lot of swimming time with his cousins, Uncle Ray & Uncle Misi moved in with us, Lekas talent of drawing came out, and also did plent of swimming, I was busy in Primary and with work, we took a family trip to Florida. It has been hectic but very fun and rewarding. Our computer crashed last week :( so I dont have a lot of pictures to choose from but above are some pictures of our Summer memories of 2010.

Monday, October 18, 2010

This past weekend Jr. and I were crazily immersed (sp) in a Benefit concert in honor of our brother Naki. We have been planning and preparing for this event for about 6weeks straight. We had been so busy that we didnt process.... that it has been a whole year without him. Jr. did give into that tonight and made some good tear soup. How does one really go on living when someone so dear to you passes on? Not sure but it's been a year and he's still trying to figure things out. Jr. has had many days where he cannot do anything. Depression could quickly be around any corner for him and he knows that. But he works so hard at staying true to Heavenly Fathers plan. I'm so proud of this boy. He amazes me on a daily basis. He has the purest and most genuine heart.

Along with this we have fortunately figured out some important truths. Things I know for sure, # 1. when we are serving others especially Naki's family it doesnt hurt so bad. #2. When we are attending church regularly and fulfilling our callings, again it doesnt hurt so bad. #3. when we are more concerned for others than ourselves......we found our strong, confident selves again.

I received so many kind and sweet compliments about the Concert Jr. and I organized for Naki's family this past weekend. People wrote on my facebook page, sent me heartfelt texts, called me on the phone but the truth is, serving others is really whats helping US! So it's a little selfish in a way too. I felt kinda guilty accepting thanks and praises when I know that I am the one receiving strength and blessings. But I do have to agree with so many that felt like Friday night was amazing. Everything really fell into place so beautifully, that I know for sure (this makes #4) that Heavenly Father and Naki were really mine and Jrs helping hand that night. From the weather to the music to the food to the gracious donations.We're total ameturs what do we know about organizing an event like this? uh nothing! But I should note that we've also been so blessed with this great set of family and friends who are willing to work 12 hours straight without pay..... or food for that matter. I really do adore my sisters and friends. Its hard for me to make decisions without their advice and stamp of approval on it. And not to mention we also have kids who are so flexible that being at a Amphitheater all day was -in Rays words- totally awesome :). This weekend was perfect. I felt Naki's presence so strong at the concert that I started to cry while watching people in line buy nachos!

Although Naki passing away has been tough on my little family..... especially for my Jr. I am starting to see some rainbows in the clouds. Thank you all for your continued love and support for our family and especially Naki's girls.