My family and I lived with Jr.s parents for the first 5 years of our marriage, so with out really realizing it, we seemed to always count on them for Family home evenings on Mondays. Since we've moved out and been on our own for a while we haven't been very good or consistent at holding spiritual/meaningful home evenings as a little family unit. Lately Ray has been a little chatter box at school and has had recess taken away from him quite often b/c he doesn't know when to zip his lips. (Again I don't know where my boys get these habits from :-) So recently a lot of our Family nights is talking to him about being obedient in school, listening and being respectful to his teacher.
Long story short, about 2 weeks ago Jr. said to me that he noticed Ray isn't enjoying Family home evening when it's spent scolding him. He doesn't want Ray to grow up hating it b/c it's the time he gets lectured. I instantly had flash backs of Monday nights when I was a kid and realized that I was repeating the same cycle I grew up in. I love my parents so much but as I kid and teenager, Monday nights were the worst for me. I felt like it was "what did you do wrong this week" night. I do realize it's important to address issues with my children and they need the counel and discipline from Jr. and I but I need to find a happy medium and that Family night should be fun also.

Two weeks ago we attended Corey's play for family night. He had the lead role in The Tempest at Mountain View High. He was so awesome. A natural.

The boys had a blast hanging out with Tiera and Kyra. They absolutely adore their cousins.
Leka and Ray have been quarreling a lot lately and I've heard the words stupid, annoying and hate come out of their mouths a lot. So my lesson today was on Forgiveness. We played the Wii as our activity and had a family talk about having a testimony which Jr. discussed with the boys. We acted out silly skits and Leka came up with a human train game of course. This is Ray's crazy skit he and Jr. came up with one night. The upside down face.

It was a blast. I've had several "a..ha" moments in the past couple of weeks. I feel so blessed to just have this time together as a family. Soon my boys will b
e off on Missions and College and I'll never get this time back with them. I'm going to cherish every second of it. I'm still their favorite girl so I better take advantage of it!
I'm SO thankful for the Gospel of Jesus Christ and all that it teaches me. I dont know what type of Mother I'd be with out it. I'm so looking forward to Conference this weekend. Cant wait!!